From: Lyuda Betina (Day 747): When I turn the pages of a calendar, I look at past weeks and months and certain events pop up in my memory, especially ones that stood out from the usual flow of days. Among the many events of this war there are those that are especially painful.
One such event that will remain in the memory of many people is the tragedy of March 2 in Odessa. Our southern city is constantly under attack, very often, day and night, drones and missiles fly to Odessa. At night on March 2 the apartment building in Odessa was hit by the drone that killed 12 people, including five children.

Among the dead was a young mother, Anna, and her 3-month-old son, Timothy. Anna was a member of the Baptist Church, she was a pastor’s daughter, a wonderful wife and mother. Social networks are full with her photographs, from which you can see how much love and joy there was in her family. In the photographs we can see that this young lady was full of love to the Lord and to her family.

Anna and her son died in their sleep and her husband and eldest daughter survived. And it was terrible that on the day of their funeral drones were flying to Odessa again. It is impossible to express all the pain that we all felt these days.

On March 6, the enemy attacked Odessa during the visit of our President Volodymyr Zelenskyi when he had a meeting with the Prime Minister of Greece. There was a strike on the port where the President and the delegation was at that moment, as a result of the shelling five people in his surrounding were killed and there are also wounded.
When a big group of missiles and drones fly at the city at the same time, our air defense shoots down many of them, but it is impossible to shoot down all.
On the front line the situation continues to be difficult, the enemy is using his advantage in aviation and their planes throw heavy bombs at our positions. Our soldiers are holding on with all their might we hear many stories of courage and endurance. It’s amazing what kind of heroes they are. We are especially trying to support them now.

We communicate with them by phone and in correspondence, we send them parcels to show them love and care. They really appreciate it and always respond to us. For the next parcel, together with food and other things we have prepared some crafts for them that they can carry in their pocket to have a reminding that God loves and protects them.
We don’t see many men on the streets of our cities now, most serve in the army, but we see more and more disabled people, these are young men who were wounded in battle. And now our society faces a big task to help these people adapt to life in their new state, accept them and give them the opportunity to be active members of society. This is also a new direction in counseling to help these people and their families live active lives.
The counselors of our center continue to work hard and help people. War aggravates many problems and it is difficult for people to solve them because they are often emotionally unstable and very vulnerable. The institution of family suffers the most. We see the problems in families of military who return from the combat zone; they return as changed people and their relationships are very difficult. Many families are now separated; wives and children had to go abroad while husbands remained in Ukraine. Not everyone’s relationship can withstand such a long separation. And even families who stay together have problems. Constant stress, emotional ups and downs, fear and panic attacks also greatly affect relationships. That’s why we decided to conduct a series of seminars on family relationships. We hope that this will help people improve their relationships and strengthen family ties.
Please pray for our country and for our ministry.
Thank you for your prayers and support.
Please, send your donations to:
Pathway Ministries
E. Langston Haygood,D.Min.,Ph.D.
Pathway Ministries, Inc.
288 Huntington Parc Circle
Birmingham, AL 35226
(205)835-3325
http://www.pathwayministriesinc.com
In Christ,
Lyuda

5 responses to “3/11/2024 – Update from Belgorod Dnestrovsky”
Our prayers continue….
Dave and Dee
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Dear Lyuda,
Continuing to lift you all up in prayer!
May God’s grace and mercy be very evident in Ukraine! 💕 🙏
Love in Christ,
Jill
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Our Father in heaven,
Deliver us from evil
Lead us not into temptation
Give us this day our daily bread
Forgive us our trespasses as we [You tell us to say it, but You know we don’t mean it] as we forgive those who trespass against us
Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven
Thy kingdom come
Hallowed be Thy name
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One year ago-
From Ira Kapitonova in Kyiv (Day 390):
Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love,
that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.
Psalm 90:14
Sometimes I get overwhelmed when I think about the post-war consequences we will have to deal with. Dealing with trauma is one of them. Unfortunately, it is often overlooked as psychological problems are not as easily visible as physical ones.
Those who suffered at the hands of the invaders, those worried sick for their loved ones in the occupied territories, those waiting for their loved ones who are fighting on the frontlines, those whose lives have been uprooted, those who have lost a friend or a loved one, and even those who are thousands of miles away from the combat zone but those who follow the news, care, and pray – we all have been traumatized by this war. And healing from this trauma will take years, so we must start praying for it now.
The other day, I read about soldiers who needed to be admitted to a mental health institution to deal with PTSD. I think it was the first report that openly spoke about this problem, which is especially sensitive in a society that doesn’t think much about mental care (one of the Soviet legacies). Having gone through hell, many soldiers suffer from nightmares, flashbacks, insomnia, and fear of crowds. These symptoms might not surface while the soldier is still on the front lines, yet they consume their whole being once they can relax in more peaceful surroundings. After WWII, researchers discovered that trauma may affect future generations, even children who haven’t been born yet. My only comfort is in knowing that God can heal, and He alone can break this trauma-passing chain. I cry out to Him to show His mercy.
I also came across an article about a support group organized by the wives of husbands serving on the front. It was started by a woman whose husband has been fighting against the invaders since 2015. She realized she could facilitate support groups for women with similar experiences to help them feel seen and understood. They have a few groups running on a regular basis, including separate groups for the wives whose husbands were killed, have been taken captive, or are considered missing-in-action. These women do their best to support their families, children, and husbands, but oftentimes they are the ones who desperately need support. May the Lord be near to them, and may they feel His presence and cast their burdens on Him.
May the Lord bring healing to all the people traumatized by this war. May He grant wisdom and sensitivity to those working with the traumatized. May every hurting heart see the loving God who is able to sympathize with their weaknesses yet can work all things together for the good of those who love Him.
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Jesus, lover of my soul,
Friends may fail me, foes assail me,
He, my Savior, helps my soul.
Alleluia! What a Savior!
Alleluia! What a friend!
Saving, helping, keeping, loving,
He is with me to the end.
Jesus, what a help in sorrow,
Let me hide myself in Thee.
Storms about me, night o’ertakes me.
He, my Savior, comes to me.
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