9/6/2025 — This past week has been very difficult for my family…

From: Lyuda Betina – wife of Sergei, pastor of the Belgorod Dnestrovsky Church (Day 1291)

News from Ukraine
This past week has been very difficult for my family. A week ago, my father passed away at the age of 86. For the past two years, he had been in poor health, experiencing heart attacks that had become more frequent in recent months. He went to be with the Lord last Saturday.

My parents

My dad, Nikolay, dedicated his entire life to teaching at an agricultural college. He worked there until he was 82. He loved to be with his students and they loved him, he was known for his warm sense of humor. At the age of 50, he came to faith in Christ. While listening to a radio program, he heard the parable of the prodigal son, and that story deeply touched his heart. In it, he recognized himself—a wandering pilgrim longing to return to his Heavenly Father.

In our Orthodox culture, where people are often focused mainly on traditions and rituals, my father stood out because he read the Scriptures and deeply understood the essence of the gospel. He was a true peacemaker, always seeking to resolve conflicts, which made the current war especially painful for him to witness. He longed to see peace restored, followed the news closely, and even made his own plans and hopes for how peace could come.
Three years ago, when the war began, Sergey and I moved in with my parents to care for them. Now that my father has passed, our home feels so empty without him. Yet we find great comfort in knowing that he is with the Lord, where there is no more suffering or pain. Please, pray for my mother, Klaudia, who feels very lonely now, they lived together for 60 years.

Our grief often distracts us from the events unfolding around us. Yet the war goes on, bringing with it pain, death, and sorrow. The new school year has begun, and children have returned to their studies. Those whose school was destroyed by an enemy missile this summer have been placed in other schools. The other day, I visited one of these schools and had a brief conversation with the teachers. I noticed how much tension they carry. Their lessons are constantly interrupted by air-raid sirens, forcing them to lead the children to bomb shelters. The responsibility for the children’s safety, combined with the fear that lingers after the attack on their school, has left a deep mark on our teachers. Last year, I worked with students and teachers at a local college, leading group therapy sessions. Perhaps I should consider doing the same for our schools as well.

Our thoughts and prayers are always with our military especially our loved ones from our church from our family. Dr. Anya had a surgery on her arm. Her many months of service in dangerous places without rest, constant physical and emotional stress affect her health. Her son, Ivan, who originally served in our city, is now serving in a different place, far from here, and we know little about his service now. He calls us and although he tells us little about what is happening around him, we are glad to hear from him and continue to pray for him and other soldiers. We also maintain close contacts with other soldiers from our town whom we met through our friends, we send them a parcels and support them as best we can and we are very happy to see them in our church when they come home for a few days. For many of them, this is their first experience with the church. This is a wonderful opportunity for us to share the Gospel and love of Jesus with them.
Last week we weren’t able to visit the orphanage because the children were sick and placed under quarantine. Thankfully, our counselor Vika now works there, so we were still able to send some treats for the kids through her.

Thank you for your support and care. These days are very difficult for us, but we hold on to the hope that a day will come when everything will change. Then we will praise the Lord for His peace, His love, and His deliverance.

Please, send your donations to:

Pathway Ministries
E. Langston Haygood,D.Min.,Ph.D.
Pathway Ministries, Inc.
288 Huntington Parc Circle
Birmingham, AL 35226
(205)835-3325
http://www.pathwayministriesinc.com

In Christ,
Lyuda

P.S. Here are some photos: of the children in the orphanage before quarantine, and of the group meeting with the refugees

4 responses to “9/6/2025 — This past week has been very difficult for my family…”

  1. You are in our prayers, especially with the death of your father. We are thankful for the hope of Jesus and knowing he is with Him.
    We continue to pray for those serving in the military and for a just end to the war.

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  2. Lyuda, I am so sorry to hear of your father’s passing. Praying for your mother & your family as you lean into our Father. Psalm 116:15 Amen.

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  3. Dear Lyuda,

    Sorry to hear of the loss of your dear father. I pray the Lord brings you much comfort and peace during this time. Also, I pray for your mom, Klaudia, as she mourns the loss of her husband of 60 years!

    Thank you for sharing your father’s testimony! I am sure it brought him much joy to see you and Serge serving the Lord, especially the past few years!

    Also, praying for the new school year and for the teachers!

    May God be with Dr. Anya, Paul, Ivan, Gleb and the many soldiers on the front lines!

    Love in Christ,

    Jill

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  4. Matt.28:20 “Surely I am with you always, even to the end of the world.” –Jesus

    Revelation 1:18 [Jesus declared] “I am the Living One; I was dead, and now look, I am alive for ever and ever! And I hold the keys of death and Hades.”

    Rev.21:3-5 [Our hope, our glimpse of the future] “I [John] heard a great voice out of heaven saying, “Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God. And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.”

    And He that sat upon the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” And He said unto me, “Write: for these words are true and faithful.”

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